Donald Trump and Sexual Assault: The Nail That Sticks Out Gets Hammered First

“The words my husband used are unacceptable and offensive to me,” read the statement, which was released by the campaign. “This does not represent the man that I know. He has the heart and mind of a leader. I hope people will accept his apology, as I have, and focus on the important issues facing our nation and the world.”—Melania Trump

Sorry, but I don’t think it’s that simple. What we have here is a man, a Presidential candidate, who doesn’t seem to understand the meaning of character. Character building begins in infancy and is a life-long process. It is the creation of self in pursuit of one’s full potential, affected by those who bear us and reinforced by how we are raised. If you were to civilize a man, begin with his grandmother.

Sexual assault is a crime of power and control. Let’s be perfectly clear. It is never the fault of the person who is assaulted. Trump has taken on a way of life rooted in his own illusionary vision of power and control. He is a hack whose actions depend to a great extent upon fear, ego and a lack of self-confidence and self-control. It is this spur of his ignorance, an innate consciousness of willful intent, no matter how disdainful or distasteful, of not wanting to understand because he expects to get away with it. In this sense, Donald Trump is a man who will do anything, fully with the understanding that he will suffer no consequences. He is incapable of climbing beyond the limitations of his own character. Character does not rely on success. It is more fundamental, preceding and outlasting all rewards. It is what your name stands for, and when it is lost, it is rarely ever recovered. His behavior to date has been nothing less than vulgar, vile, narcissistic and paternalistic.

So how does he handle these situations? His fallback is pivoting and transference. In his world, he is never responsible for anything he says or anything he does. His latest lewd comments are denounced as “locker room talk”, “boys will be boys” and “all men do the same thing”. Well, not exactly. First, his heart is not in the right place. Second, self-praise provides no credible recommendation and is not the same as self-confidence. He has found himself in a rat race and even if he thinks he has won, he is still a rat. His reckless pursuit of success has overtaken any sense of decency and respect for his fellow citizens, especially women and the “others”. His so-called fame has turned out to be a double edged sword and he has no one to blame but himself.

I will always remember the admonishments my parents gave me and my brothers whenever we left the house, whether heading to school, visiting friends or just interacting with our neighbors or the local neighborhood kids. “When you walk out that door, you are representing this family and its name. Act accordingly”. Donald Trump has made his choices. It is time for him to be held accountable for those choices. He is completely unfit to be President of The United States.

September 11, 2001: Life Is A Continuing Lesson In Humility And Humanity

September 11, 2001 is a day that profoundly impacted all Americans. It was a day that I will never forget. Just 3 days earlier, I was inaugurated as President of the Maine Medical Association during the Association’s 148th Annual Session.

That following Tuesday was a scheduled office day for me. Nothing special or unusual. The patients were arriving as scheduled. I was prepared for a “normal day” at the office. The phones were ringing. There was the usual chatter of the patients in the waiting area. Undoubtedly, these same events were unfolding in physicians’ offices across Maine.

Suddenly everything changed with the news flashes on the television in the waiting area. Incredible! Unbelievable! Our nation was under attack. During this time, I received a phone call from a colleague about a patient she wanted to refer. We discussed the patient and decided on a plan of care. Our conversation then turned to the unfolding events in New York, Washington, DC and Pennsylvania. And then things got worse.

My colleague informed me that two of the passengers on American Flight 11 were from our local area. She gave me their names. Those names echoed immediately through my brain. The names were those of two of my patients. I slumped back into my chair as I sat at my desk. At that moment in time, I was truly humbled. Life is a continuing lesson in humility and humanity.

Historically, the medical profession has responded nobly in times of crisis. This is especially important in today’s world, as the potential scope of disasters continues to expand. We immediately contacted the Maine Emergency Management Agency and sent out a blast call to physicians across the state. The response of Maine physicians to the call for volunteers was overwhelming. Within an hour of the call for volunteers by the Maine Medical Association, there were over one hundred Maine physicians standing in line. As the day progressed, that number grew even larger.

As a community, we need to remain vigilant and always be prepared for catastrophic events, be they terrorist attacks or natural disasters, now more than ever before. The need for preparedness spans all of our communities, from individuals to state and local organizations. We must make certain that our hospitals and communities are actively involved in disaster preparedness on a continuing basis. All of these preparations are accompanied by the fervent hope that they will never be necessary. However, these are precautions that we must take.

Fifteen years later, I remain humbled and filled with the spirit of humanity in this place we call America.

“We The People”: No More Standing On The Sidelines For Democrats In Piscataquis County

Why are you running for Maine House District 120? This is a question that comes up from time to time. In each person’s life, come others who pave the way for those who will follow. Yes, it’s a delicate balance to value yourself enough, to believe in your goodness and potential, without destructively becoming self-centered.

It’s about WE THE PEOPLE. Some of you may recall The “Declaration of Conscience”, delivered on the floor of in the U. S. Senate on June 1, 1950 by Maine’s on Margaret Chase Smith. The essence of her speech was that “standing for right is not always the popular and easy way. Standing for right when it is unpopular is a true test of moral character. When people keep telling you that you can’t do a thing, you kind of like to try it”.

We in Piscataquis County are at a historic point in time. We must no longer stand on the sidelines. As we head into the November elections, we, the Democratic Party of Piscataquis County, tonight are making a statement to the rest of the citizens of Maine. We are not going to take it anymore. We are citizens of this great state and we demand inclusion in the process and accountability from our elected representatives. We will accept nothing less. We often hear the words “freedom” and “democracy”, but what exactly do we mean? We are governed not by armies and police, but by ideas. We want our ideas to be included in our state legislative process as our freedom and democracy do not stop at the edge of the Kennebec River.

As I have been going around the various towns in our county, I am dismayed by the calamities under which many of our citizens are living. I was raised in a family of 5 boys and one girl. My father, a truck driver and proud Teamster only went to the 8th grade. My mother, our home-maker, only went to the 9th grade. We lived in one of the most poverty stricken and violent neighbor-hoods in Houston. I saw how my parents struggled from day to day, just to make ends meet. I know what it feels like to go to bed at night without a meal, or to go to school without a lunch. I know what it’s like to not have the proper school supplies or the latest fashion in clothing, most of which were “hand-me-downs”. Today, it seems that these same struggles are occurring far too often for far too many of Maine citizens. We seem to be trapped in a time warp.

The recent headlines in the news made by our esteemed governor and the actions and inaction’s of our legislature demand that Maine citizens cease voting against their own self interests. We can no longer accept any circumstances that do not recognize the needs our senior citizens, cuts funding for the education of our students, not aggressively pursing resolutions for those who are unemployed, allowing corporations in particular to not pay a living wage to those who are employed, insisting that women must have the approval of men before they can make their own medical decisions and neglecting the needs of our homeless, especially our veterans, the single most important group that has and continues to ensure freedom and democracy for the rest of us.

If our society continues to allow wrongs to go unchallenged, the impression is created that those wrongs have the approval of the majority. Progress requires change and a civil society attempts to accommodate this need through openness, transparency and inclusion. The imperative is to define what is right and do it.

As Abraham Lincoln said, “I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand with anybody that stands for right, and stand with him while he is right, and part with him when he goes wrong”.

What Piscataquis County Democrats want is simple. We want a Maine community as good as its promise. If we are going to fail, rest assured, we will fail towards seeking success.

The Promise And The Reality: Poverty, Jobs, Education And Student Debt